Every time I make a comment someone deletes it without explaining why. I've seen instances where someone is being deliberately rude and every time I reply my comment gets deleted.
Why are we so quick to censor?
When someone is being rude, instead of replying with a rude comment of your own, flag the comment as either "rude or offensive" or "not constructive." (I can see from your flagging history that you know how.) This is clarified in the Be nice section of the help center.
Specifically, responding to disagreement with comments like
You seem butthurt by my comment
If you don't like to have arguments with people you should try avoiding spewing insults in response to viewpoints that you don't agree with.
might feel satisfying to you, but that's not what comments are for.
These comments were flagged by other users as "rude or offensive" or "not constructive" and met the criteria for removal, so they were removed.